PRIVATE SESSIONS

I offer one-on-one sessions of shibari, sensory exploration and power exchange.

All genders are welcome.

A woman with platinum blonde hair, red lipstick, and earrings, kneeling on a bed with a brown fur blanket, wearing black leather gloves. Female shibari artist in Amsterdam offering private sessions

In my work, the art of shibari creates a bridge between mind and body, creating a way into deep surrender and connection with yourself. Through rope, the body becomes a receiving vessel: while it may usually turn to movement to soothe and activate, here, it does so through stillness.

A woman in outdoor clothing and a woman in black clothing are in a bedroom, with the woman in black tied up with ropes and lying on the bed, and the woman in outdoor clothing leaning over her, holding a whip. The room has dark walls and a bed with pillows.

Rope reaches past composure, past what we are used to performing in daily life, into what lives beneath the surface but rarely gets to exist.

Power exchange is what happens when we allow ourselves to play with and fully embody the roles of giving and receiving.

In my sessions, my role is to lead, yours is to hand me your curiosities and desires. For a pocket in time and space, you get to simply be, and to receive care and intensity in a special way.

  • "It felt very powerful, both emotionally and physically. What surprised me is the long term impact. It came after a period of intense stress and doubts rooted in my 'control freak' side. It is very unusual for me to really let go, and I did it with you. After the experience I slept better, felt more connected to myself, more centered. A feeling I thought I had lost. I felt very safe in your hands but it was still challenging, an intense reminder that I can let go and everything will be fine. The reassurance and release are still with me."

    — O

  • “Being tied by Antartica is like nothing I have ever felt before. As a person that struggles to let go, this experience changed my understanding of what it is like to surrender. Antartica is soft and kind, yet firm and guiding. Her presence makes you feel safe, giving you the space to be curious and explore through movement and touch. A ritual that can only be described as a deeply sensual and spiritual massage for the brain and body.”

    — C

  • I had my second Shibari experience with Miss Antartica after almost five years, and it was beyond sensorial: it was out of this world. Perhaps because my heart is open now and I am able to perceive things I wasn't ready to feel before, but she transported me to a different dimension. A dimension where tension, softness, trust, support, care, and intensity all met.

    From the beginning to the very end of the session, she carried me through the music, the ropes, and her sensitive touch. It was a sensory experience that I would recommend to anyone open to exploring and deepening their senses. I felt incredibly calm and relaxed afterward, and I carried that beautiful feeling with me for the rest of the day. For me, it was a deeply sensual and transcendental human experience, one of those moments that truly make you feel that life is worth living.

    – A

  • “I’ve got quite a bit of experience with rope, but I was new to Antartica, so I went in with an open mind. What surprised me most was how quickly I felt at ease with her. There was this immediate sense of safety that made it easy to relax into the session. It started off soft and sensual, but naturally shifted into something more playful as we went along. I’d asked to bring in some BDSM elements, and she introduced them in a way that felt really intuitive. Pretty quickly, I found myself dropping into that “zone” where everything just clicks. I found myself fully present, a mix of raw emotion and playfulness, just really enjoying the experience.”

    — L

  • "Being guided so gently into vulnerability helped me listen to my body in a new way, real clarity around what my body needs, and a new attunement to her signals. The guidance was soft and intuitive, not only through touch but through constant communication. It never felt like something being done to me, but a shared experience built on trust. Combined with a perfectly aligned playlist, the space felt soothing, held, and intentional. An awakening, an embodied reminder of what vulnerability can be when it's met with presence and care."

    — S

  • “The rope session with Antartica felt really really special for me. The word that has stuck with me for this session is 'serene’. I felt really calm afterwards, as if my nervous system had a reset. A true gift. Antartica was very mindful and gentle during and after the session. She communicated everything very kindly and was mindful of how i felt during the session. A safe and wholesome experience.”

    — J

  • “Such a fun session. Miss Antartica has an intimidating style that definitely made me feel intimidated. I loved the way she manipulated my body and pushed my limits. Will book her again.”

    — S

  • “Miss Antartica created a unique experience for me taking into account my specific interests. From the initial contact to the farewell, everything was handled with the utmost professionalism.”

    – S

Two women engaged in a BDSM and shibari, japanese rope bondage scene in Amsterdam, with one woman lying on the floor, on a carpeted surface in a dimly lit room.
A submissive man hanging upside down in a shibari suspension in Amsterdam, tied by Miss Antartica during a female domination session
Body tied in shibari rope, in japanese bondage suspension during a female domination session

  • There are as many session types as there are people. Every person looks for, wants and needs something different. Be it a meditation, sensual connection or aesthetic experience. If you’re on the kinkier side, it could be restraint, objectification or masochistic pleasure. This might be something that you already know about yourself, or still want to discover.

  • No, you don't need to have experience with shibari, nor a particular physical disposition or skills to book a session with me. What you need is a basic awareness of and ability to communicate your desires and boundaries, as well as openness and good intentions. Together we will discuss what feels right for you, your body and your experience level.

  • For those who wish to deepen the sensory experience, touch, feathers, candle wax, pinwheel sensation play, impact tools or other can be incorporated into the session.

    For those wishing to be adored aesthetically, I offer the possibility to be captured in photography during the session.

    Some clients are particularly receptive to what kind of look I am wearing. If that’s your fetish, you are welcome voice your desires.

    Each addition is discussed beforehand so that everything that unfolds is intentional, consensual, and aligned with what you are seeking.

  • The design of the session is inherently collaborative. Whether you'd like to give me full autonomy or prefer to tell me exactly what you want, it is always the result of a mutual exchange, clear communication and boundary setting. Most of the time it’s somewhere in between. You let me know me what you like and what you’re curious about, and together we create your fantasy. I am in charge of your experience by taking the lead with my intention, knowledge and my ropes.

  • BOUNDARIES Before the session, we will discuss your desires and boundaries. These can change before and during the session, so I invite you to take a moment to reflect on them as you arrive to the session.

    CLOTHING I invite you to dress in a manner that feels comfortable to you while elevating your desired experience, taking into account the sensation of rope on the skin and how dressed up (or not) you want to feel. For femmes, this can be lingerie, a cotton dress, yoga pants, a body, even heels. For men, shorts, boxers, jumpsuit work. Bring a warm layer to wear after the session.

    HYGIENE I kindly ask that you arrive fresh and clean. A shower before the session is appreciated to further honour the experience we are about to share.

    FOOD When it comes to food, consider eating something light beforehand and staying hydrated.

  • The short answer is no. I do not provide sexual services within my shibari sessions. What they can feel like, and are welcome to, is sensual, if that is something you are looking for and I am comfortable providing within our dynamic. Shibari is relational, energetic, and human, which means unexpected sensations can arise, and that is a big part of the beauty of it. What I do is create a container where these sensations can emerge in a way that is comfortable yet exciting for you.

  • The rate depends on the elements of the session and will be disclosed via email.

BOOK A PRIVATE SESSION

This is our first touchpoint. From here on, our conversation about your desires begins. I invite you to take a moment to reflect: what are you curious to explore about yourself and your sensuality?

To begin, please fill in the form below.

Bisoux,

Miss Antartica

Photography by Raphael Pomès